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Bonjour Gilles

c´est dommage que tu ne parles pas l`allemand pour pouvoir lire les commentaires. Mais pas de problème.

Ici il y a beaucoup de monde qui parle l´anglais.
Un peu de patience, on va te trouver.

Pour le moment je te souhaite un weekend plein de soleil et de joie.

Amitiés
sunlight

Hi underoffer,

it ´s nice to speak and read English (or French ), that keeps the languages in my mind... ok, it s not perfect, but I hope, you will understand (school is long time ago).

To your questions:
Some orders are delivered quickly (you´ve seen it), some not. Meanwhile I think, that you have to have the feeling, that you´re worth to get the fulfilling of your orders. You must believe/ know, that you get your orders come true, if it s ok for all involved persons.

Think about your feeling, when you order "small" things and your feeling, when you order "bigger" things (it s only in your mind, what s "big" and what s "small").

I think, that s some of the thoughts about orders to the uni.

greetings, flipp

Thanks.

Could i ask how long am i supposed to give myself for an order to be deliverd regarding "money" and or "relationship" ?

Since i tried to order sums of money no matter how big or small , my finances went down . I find it amusingly strange . Do others people enconter the same?

Thanks, Gilles

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Bonjour Gilles, je suis meilleure et plus à l'aise en français qu'en anglais, mais je vais répondre en anglais pour que les autres puissent comprendre aussi. D'ailleurs, ton anglais est vraiment très bien; en fait je connais très peu de Français qui parlent/écrivent bien l'anglais et je n'ai jamais vraiment compris pourquoi ils y sont si réticents... donc compliment pour toi!

I don't have any experience in ordering money since, luckily, I don't have financial problems very often. I'm a freelancer, so if I feel I need more money, I order more work which will make me earn more money. Whenever I had a wish I needed money for, e.g. a holiday trip, I was not given money "for free" (finding some on the street or so), but I got the occasion to earn the money I needed to realize my wish. I don't know your situation Gilles, but maybe you are out of work and therefore out of money for the moment? So I think it could be a possibility for you to wish for a possibility to earn money and therefore get out of financial trouble.

As far as relationships are concerned - yes, I have experience with ordering that and can tell you that this kind of order is obviously taking time. Indeed my order I placed some time ago is still "on the way", but I already got two hints that "they" are proceeding it. As Flip already wrote, it's up to ourselves if we consider a certain order as "big" or "small" and as far as I'm concerned, I consider the order for a relationship as something big and difficult because I find "love" to be one of the most difficult and especially arbitrary things in life. Maybe it's the same for you?

I think ordering a relationship depends on various factors:
- Before thinking of a relationship, you must feel whole and complete yourself. If you think "I don't feel complete and only a partner can make me whole", it won't happen.
- To obtain this state of mind, you have to learn to like yourself, to accept yourself and to be good to yourself. And you have to be sure that you deserve a wonderful relationship with a wonderful person.
- You must not fix all your thoughts on a relationship, but really loose the order. "Well if it happens it's great and welcome and it'll be the dot on the i of my life, but if it doesn't - no problem, I'll be happy anyway".

I know that it can be very hard to accomplish all these factors. So if one of them currently doesn't apply to you, you need to work on them first. You can do so by placing orders.

Hi Gilles,
where are you from? It's funny, I'm living in Paris and working for Disney.
Well anyway, to your questions, I think, it's like if you are searching for something. If you force yourself to find it, it's sure you won't find. And then, when you don't think about it anymore, you just find it. It's not that easy, peaple also say, that you have to accept the situation in which you are now, so like you gotta be happy with the here and now. You gotta think, that the things, you are wishing for, you don't need them really, they would be just a nice supplement. So thats what they are meaning by "leeting go". Me, myself I'm not that far yet, to be able to say, it works. It's logical, the moment you wish for something, it's coz you really would like to have it, right? So, it's I wrote it already in one of my german comments, smaller things, like to catch a train, it's not important, but it's a nice supplement. So I'm wishing for it, and letting go in the same moment. And it works, I have the train, the bus, I wished for. It happened already more than once. But other things like the relationship or money it's hard. I have less money, just like you;-((, and well, realtionship with a special person, the wishing might be difficult, as the will of that other person is involved, a relationship in general, well Nana desribed it already.
So if we could be able to see the wish for money and realtionship as easy as to catch a train, might be working;-))

"tiens nous en courrant de ce qui s'est passe chez toi, à bientôt"

Magic

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Magic thanks.

It makes sense. As easy as wanting to catch a train and catch it. I will try this.

I'm from Paris but live in London, for many years.

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Magic hi

This one is for you and all who can speak good French.

There is a sentence which is repeated many time in the Cosmic Ordering Service book. I understand all the words but cannot get a clear meaning of it.

"Make a stronger commitment to yourself "
[faites un engagement plus fort a vous-meme] ??

Could anyone help me on this.

Thanks. Gilles

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As far as I have understood, this means

- be good to yourself.
- develop a healthy (with emphasis on "healthy") egoism and don't feel guilty about it, i. e. do things YOU want more often and don't focus on acting the way people expect you to all the time.
- love and accept yourself.

Nana thanks.

I understand the general meaning . What i'm after is to translate it exactly ,and i believe it would be even better if done from German into French of "Make a stronger commitment to yourself " .
I would be able to think or even repeat it at time when needed.

After many years of speaking English, some words don't have the same feeling . Like if i say to myself "slowly" , i understand what it says, but when saying "doucement" , i feel it in my body. Very strange i know, but true for me.

I try to get the book in French, but there is no translation.

Thanks.Gilles

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Ah, OK! Now I know what you mean, I didn't get it the first time. And I know what it is to physically "feel" certain words... and sometimes there is like an antipathy against certain words, you don't like to say them because they don't "feel" good, do you know this too?

The sentence, "Make a stronger commitment to yourself", is originally an English language sentence because it was not Bärbel Mohr who "invented" it, but she adopted it from someone else whose mothertongue is English. Therefore, the sentence is translated from English into German in the German book (by Bärbel herself). I think there is no "better" translation because commitment = Verpflichtung = engagement. I think you yourself, knowing what this sentence means, have to find THE words in French which will enter straight into your body.

Let us know what you found out.

Hey Gilles,

it's very funny, but actually I have the french version of the book, as I live here in Paris, you know, I choosed the book by chance (maybe it was my subconscience who told me to...), afterwards I realized that the original is in german, and thats how I got to this forum.
Well, any way, in french the sentence is:
souscris un engagement plus fort envers toi-même
I will write you some sentences in french from this text, this might help you:

"...En souscrivant un engagement plus fort envers toi-même, tu déclares ton intention de vivre ta vérité. Tu déclares ton intention de solliciter le courage pour vivre ta vérité. Tu déclares que tu souhaites vivre dans l'unité ainsi que dans l'amour et dans la joie qiu suivent tout naturellement ces choses..."

Hope I could help
have a nice day
Magic

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Magic , a very big thanks.

I try to find the book in French over the net, contacted shops in France [over the net] and the results were fruitless. And then you came with the answer. I asked for it and you delivered it to me.

Could you tell me which shop did you buy the book as i could try to find it again now that it does exist.

Thanks again.

Gilles

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hey underoffer,

its the good old FNAC, where I bought it;-)), it was at Disney at the Commercial Center Val d'europe. You know what's strange? I bought it in a situation, when I was very very sad and in a bad mood (well, it was because of a guy....), it just "atired" me. I never thought, all these changes/chances would come after have reading this little book. I mean, in the book was the HP of Baerbel Mohr, and so I came to this Forum.
And the guy, well I still like him, but I'm not that desperated anymore. Specially coz I know, that in the moment I actually don't want to have a relation ship. Need more time to find things about me out. So for this I wanted to buy more books from Baerbel. And very strange but neither FNAC, nor Virgin or whatever, I don't find any other book anymore. Even this one I didn't see. It was as it laid there for me, and than "domage, disparue.."

Well, I wish you luck to find it, if you really really shouldn't find it, just write me your adress, I could send it to you.
Actually for me it's better too, if I have it in german. And I read it already in french, so if it helps you...just let me know, alright?

Have a "magical" day )

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Magic hi

Could you tell me the French title they gave to the book. I tried La Fnac a while ago, but they didnt have anything. Tried again today and cant see anything.

Thanks, Gilles

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