Hello to you x_biro
I recently had a number of orders come through in quick succession. I think this happened because the first one was so successful so quickly that my "faith" in the system was boosted. I really did feel joyful and gratitude at the same time (even though they were very small things) and it all just rolled into place. I will tell you what these orders were and what happened in an effort to explain what I was feeling (and therefore why I think it worked):
The first one was I had to go to a very busy electrical shop to buy a small part. I ordered a parking space right outside. There is NEVER any space on this road as it is free parking and it is ALWAYS busy. As I was driving to my destination I got a text from a friend asking me to get some limes (of all things!) for her. I forgot about the order because I was thinking where I could go to buy the fruit. When I got to the shop, I swear RIGHT OUTSIDE was a big parking space. I couldn't believe it. It really made me smile and feel "tickly" inside. I said my thanks.
The second one was: I had to go to a large DIY store after this which was miles away so I got back into the car and decided that rather than go to a huge supermarket I would call in to one of those corner shop supermarkets which was on the way. I cosmically ordered 4 limes. I dont know why 4 (she had only asked for 2), but the number came into my head so I went with it. I said "I am ordering 4 limes. Thank you.". I got to the shop (by the way there was a parking space outside there too!) and as I walked through the door the fruit section was in front of me. There was a basket of oranges, a basket of grapefruit and a basket of limes. Guess how many limes there were? Yes, 4! Just 4. No less, no more. I was practically laughing out loud in amazement.
I drove off to the DIY store saying my thanks and ordering my parking space right outside the door. (Again there is rarely a space near the door). Guess what? You guessed it, there was my space right opposite the door.
So the point to his long story (sorry

) is that I was able to "let go" because I was thinking about something else. Then the gratitude I felt and amazingness (if there is such a word) of what was happening kind of took me on a roll.
I think the thing is, be assertive when you order (eg "I am ordering a...." rather than "If its ok with you, when you are ready, could you possibly get me a....") be positive and get on with it, be happy and really really mean it. Act as if you have it already (eg drive towards your parking space expecting it to be there). An example of how it doesnt work also happened to me. On a different day I ordered a parking space at my point of destination. As I was ordering it I just KNEW deep down inside I wasnt going to get it. Guess what? I was right. No parking space. However this also made me laugh when I got there because I had got what I ordered, if you see what i mean. Oh the irony.
Sometimes its hard to be positive, but keep practising.
Im sure 240471 wont mind me saying this, but she has loads of good books to recommend which may help you to further understand the whole process. Maybe if you ask her, she will offer just the right words for you at just the right time. She's great.
You WILL get the hang of it.
Keep practising.